Just so we're clear: I don't know shit about shit. Sifting through, and finding order in, my own drama is hard enough - and I could so be doing a better job. If you think I think you're making the wrong choices or that you're even capable of doing wrong, I have to tell you that...you're wrong. :-) Because the truth is: I don't ultimately believe in "wrong." Or "right." I simply believe in choice and consequence, that's it. I believe in present moment What Is-ness. And as far as I can make out, the present moment does not allow for right or wrong, only the unfolding of Reality. Our mental stories are what make things appear otherwise.
Do I disagree with you sometimes? Yeah. But it doesn't mean anything. It isn't personal. It's only because I happen to be telling myself a different story than you are, and I allow myself to get overly invested, swept away. Sometimes I look at the choices you (or anyone!) make and I want to jump out of my chair and say, "No, no, no! Here, check this out. I've got a better idea, let me help you fix this!" And from the bottom of my heart, I'm so sorry for the times that has happened. And for the times I've sighed in frustration or rolled my eyes when something you said about your world or the people in it rubbed me the wrong way. All I can say is that I've temporarily fallen asleep. I've temporarily confused myself, mentally stepping in to your business, mistaken, thinking I could know better for your days than you do.
Please believe me when I say: I do not know better; I know that I do not know better. I'm sorry for acting like I think I do. In my best moments, at my most enlightened, I know that your life and those who are in it couldn't possibly be doing a more brilliant, beautiful job. I mean that. Maybe there are "problems" but there's nothing for me to "fix." There's nothing that I - or even you - need to change. Not unless you're just organically called to something on your own. The Universe is setting things up for all of us just right, so it's not for me to say what you should or should not be doing. I apologize that I don't always live that way. I'm sorry that I've made you feel like you're incapable or a failure, bless your heart - because there is nothing further from the truth. And in the future, should I step in to your business or offer "help" that wasn't asked for, just know that I've lost clarity for a spell, and that I'm sure to wake up again soon. I'll soon be clear, and able, to Love you again.